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The Chicken’s Way Out

August 5, 2014 by melragent 4 Comments

Sam the Anti-Preemie: Big Chicken

Did anyone notice? That is what I kept asking myself after hitting publish on my last post. The opening line was so obvious: After 7 months of single parenting, But, since I hadn't told a lot of people, I wasn't sure if anyone would really notice... or realize what I had just said. This was … [Read more...] about The Chicken’s Way Out

Filed Under: Parenting, Single Motherhood

Of Lice and Poop

August 4, 2014 by melragent Leave a Comment

Sam the Anti=Preemie hanging with his sister

After 7 months of single parenting, I really thought I had a handle on things. We were a well-oiled machine. We were eating better. There was less fighting in the house. We were on-time to everything. Kids were happy. I was happy. Then, in one evening, my façade came crashing down in a pile … [Read more...] about Of Lice and Poop

Filed Under: Parenting, Single Motherhood, Three years to Four Years Tagged With: Constipation, Lice, Poop, Single Parenting

Potty Training the Autistic Child

June 21, 2014 by melragent Leave a Comment

Sam the Anti-Preemie in a bouncy house

So, you think it is time to potty train your son.  Great!  But, before we start, I have to ask, why are you sure he is ready? Here are a few typical answers you might get: "Well- he keeps hiding in a corner when he poops, and every time he pees, he grabs at his diaper." "He asked is he could … [Read more...] about Potty Training the Autistic Child

Filed Under: Autism, Life at home, Parenting, Three years to Four Years Tagged With: Poop, potty training

Why is asking for help so hard?

April 3, 2014 by melragent Leave a Comment

Sam The Anti-Preemie's amazing grandparents

You would think, with all I have been through, that by now I would be an expert at asking people for help.  Or at least accepting help when it is offered to me. The reality is, I am terrible at both.  I hate leaning on people.  I hate needing help.  I feel guilty every time I accept help. This … [Read more...] about Why is asking for help so hard?

Filed Under: Parenting

Stop trying to “cure” my son

March 19, 2014 by melragent Leave a Comment

Sam the Anti-Preemie and his mom

The past few weeks have been filled with a number of amazing stories on autism. Stories that were insulting, inspiring, and infuriating. I know that I may be in the minority because I do not sit and wonder why my son has autism. I am confident I know why. Sam was born at 24 weeks. That means the … [Read more...] about Stop trying to “cure” my son

Filed Under: Autism, Parenting, Two years to Three years

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I’m Melissa. My life was turned upside down when my second child, Sam, was born just 24 weeks into my pregnancy. This is our continuing story. Memoir about our experiences due out Nov 2, 2021

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