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Acceptance

September 12, 2014 by melragent 4 Comments

Sam the Anti-Preemie Acceptance

Tomorrow is Sam's first ever birthday party... with friends... from his school. I was hesitant to throw him a party, unsure if other kids would come. I was nervous that if I invited his class, they would all find excuses not to attend the party. Sam's therapist pushed me. She told me Sam was … [Read more...] about Acceptance

Filed Under: Autism, Parenting, Three years to Four Years Tagged With: Autism, Birthday, Tears

Potty Training the Autistic Child

June 21, 2014 by melragent Leave a Comment

Sam the Anti-Preemie in a bouncy house

So, you think it is time to potty train your son.  Great!  But, before we start, I have to ask, why are you sure he is ready? Here are a few typical answers you might get: "Well- he keeps hiding in a corner when he poops, and every time he pees, he grabs at his diaper." "He asked is he could … [Read more...] about Potty Training the Autistic Child

Filed Under: Autism, Life at home, Parenting, Three years to Four Years Tagged With: Poop, potty training

Stop trying to “cure” my son

March 19, 2014 by melragent Leave a Comment

Sam the Anti-Preemie and his mom

The past few weeks have been filled with a number of amazing stories on autism. Stories that were insulting, inspiring, and infuriating. I know that I may be in the minority because I do not sit and wonder why my son has autism. I am confident I know why. Sam was born at 24 weeks. That means the … [Read more...] about Stop trying to “cure” my son

Filed Under: Autism, Parenting, Two years to Three years

Sometimes in the background

March 11, 2014 by melragent Leave a Comment

Some days, I forget about how Sam's Autism (and former preemie status) has impacted Irene. She has had to give up a lot for her little brother. More than most of us. And more often than not, she has done this quietly and without complaint. Because of the maturity that Irene has shown, I sometimes … [Read more...] about Sometimes in the background

Filed Under: Autism, Therapy Fund, Two years to Three years

Waking from a long slumber

March 3, 2014 by melragent Leave a Comment

Sam the Anti Preemie and his sister

Sadly, no. I am not talking about the mythical creature all parents have heard tales of that sleeps for hours at a time - uninterrupted. Sadly, the slumber I am talking about is more metaphorical than actual. I have come to the realization that I have been sleepwalking through the past five years … [Read more...] about Waking from a long slumber

Filed Under: Autism, Life at home, Two years to Three years

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